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Saturday, July 21, 2007

这就是爱

如果你也正在為愛迷惘,或許下面這段話可以給你一些啟示:

愛一個人!要了解,也要開解;

要道歉,也要道謝;

要認錯,也要改錯;

要體貼,也要體諒;

是接受,而不是忍受;

是寬容,而不是縱容;

是支持,而不是支配;

是慰問,而不是質問;

是傾訴,而不是控訴;

是難忘,而不是遺忘;

是彼此交流,而不是凡事交代;

是為對方默默祈求,而不是向對方諸多要求;

可以浪漫,但不要浪費;

可以隨時牽手,但不要隨便分手

如果你都做到了,即使你不再愛一個人,也只有懷念,而不會懷恨。

你懂得如何去愛了嗎?試試看

Thursday, July 19, 2007

TO MY DEAR LOUPO~~~TONG SOO SWAN

WOWOYAYAY~~~~~COME ON~~~~~
AHAHAAHA..WAHAHAHAHHA.....HOHOHOHHO.....
FINALLY...FINALLY..DENDENDENDEN......
I'M HAPPY TO HEAR THAT YOU ARE FULLY RECOVERED....
CONGRAT CONGRAT!!!!!GONG HEI GONG HEI!!!!!
AHAHAHA....
I SIAO D.......
HOHOHOHOHOHOHOHOH......
SO 2MORROW NIGHT WE CAN ENJOY OUR DELICIOUS NIGHT...
EAT TO THE MAX..............YEAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!

我心中的''得得地''


left: 常在心。。。RIGHT: '得得地'

最近才追看完'溏心风暴'。。对于这部戏我只能用一个字来形容。。。赞!!!!!
如果你们有收看的话,一定也会认同我的说法。。这部戏的故事是说关于一个鲍鱼王争产的故事。。一个原本和乐融融的大家庭却因为六亿的家产争个你死我活。。可见钱的威力真是不小。。争吵戏真是有够过瘾。。那些奸角真的坏的想打他几百拳。。也不够。。还要打他几百个巴掌才算数。。看这部戏的同时,我的情绪也跟着这部戏高潮起伏。。可见真的有多感人与真实而且真的很有启发性。。。其实他就是反映着现在社会的现实。。钱真的这么万能吗?这我可不知道。。可是对我来说钱真的是不可缺少以生存在这个社会。。。现在可不是靠骨气就能吃饭的。。HAIZ。。。只能说我们都是身不由己。。。除了家庭朋友的部分。。戏中的女主角(蓝衣)被自己最好的朋友背叛。。他的好朋友搭上他的男友。。这个世界上女人最不能忍受的是跟别一个女人分享自己的男人。。更何况是自己的朋友。。真是残忍。。HAIZ。。

当然最感动我的就是爱情的部分。。我说的是'得得地' 与常在心的爱情部分。。无论常在心有什么困难。。钱,工作,家庭,朋友。。。他都一直默默的守护着他。。。真的很感动。。常在心就是图片中的女生。。当他没有钱给学费时,'得得地' 就跟他签了他们之间所谓的'合约'。。常在心承诺'得得地'。。。内容如下。。
''甲方(常在心〕会在毕业后尽快找工作还钱给乙方)'得得地'。。
乙方日后如有任何困难,甲方必定赴汤蹈火尽力帮忙。。
此份承诺将会维持到任何一方死亡未止!!!!!!''
当我听着听着眼泪也跟着流下来。。。试问在现在这个世界上会有多说人会真正的感激。。我想也许有吧。。但我还没遇到。。'得得地'真的是一个很为别人着想的男生。。
如果说出事实会伤害到人,他宁可自己去承受所有的委屈。。就算别人怎么责骂他,他也会承受着。。
当他送常在心回家后,他会亲眼看见他家的灯亮后才离开。。。
当常在心难过时,他会特地学用SAXOPHONE 吹他爱听的歌来哄他开心。。
就算常在心拒绝他后,他还是全心全意的对他。。他对常在心的好是完全没有目的。。完全是因为他爱常在心。。看看现在。。爱一个人都是有着目的。。根本不是出自于单纯的爱。。而且一切的付出都是要求回报的
'得得地'就是一个这样的人。。可以为了身边他所爱的人,家人,朋友甚至是爱人。。都能不求回报的付出。。虽然他有点戆直。。但这就是他的特点。。他就是能逗得所有人开心。。。
那我心中的'得得地'又会在哪里呢?我会遇到像他这么好的男人吗?能够全心全意的对我好。。不求回报。。能够一直的守护着我。。能一直逗我笑。。。我想这些就是我想要的。。说真的。。我不要求我未来的他是一个大帅哥。。不一定要很聪明。。但他只要像我说的那样。。我想我就会默默的把我的心交给他。。这个人就会是陪伴我走过一生的人。。我一直在期待着。。我会默默的等待着我的'得得地'出现在我的生命里。。
也希望我身边的朋友都能等到他们的'得得地'。。
接下来我将会写出戏中的一段最感人的部分:
RECENTLY,A SERIES OF INCIDENTS HAS HAPPENED IN MY FAMILY
AND I THOUGH WE ALL LOST IT
ALL THE LAUGHTER AND HAPPINESS THAT USED TO BE AROUND THE HOUSE
LUCKILY THAT'S THIS ONE PERSON
HE HAS BEEN PUTTING SO MUCH EFFORT
IN PULLING MY FAMILY BACK TOGETHER
AND THAT PERSN IS MY BIG BROTHER
SOMETIMES I THINK HE IS A STRANGE GUY
WE ALWAYS MAKE FUN OF HIM BEING CLUMSY AND OUTDATED
BUT TO ME,HE IS A RED PACKET
DURING THE HOLIDAYS AND SPECIAL EVENTS
HE WILL GIVE ME A RED PACKET
JUST LIKE THIS MORNING BEFORE I ENTERED THE EXAM
THERE WAS NOTHING INSIDE BUT TO ME ITS CONTENT IS LOVE
FROM NOW ON I WISH TO RECEIVE HIS RED PACKET
EVERY YEAR,EVERY MONTH,NO。。EVRYDAY
BECAUSE I KNOW HIM AND HIS RED PACKET
WILL BRING OUR FAMILY LOVE AND HAPPINESS
this definitely saying about '得得地'..and this was reading out by her sister ..so touch..
evrytime when i saw this my teard will drop...what a touch scene...
and the song which recently play in my blog was also one of the theme song of this show...
if you wonder off too far my love will get you home
if you flow the wrong star my love will get you home
if you ever find yourself lose all alone get back on your feeling
think of me my love will get you home boy my love will get you home
if the bright lights bright your eyes my love will get you home
if your troubles break your strike my love will get you home
if you ever find yourself lose all alone get back on your feeling
think of me my love will get you home boy my love will get you home
if you erer feel ashame my love will get you home
when there's only you to blame my love will get you home
if you ever find yourself lose all alone get back on your feeling
think of me my love will get you home boy my love will get you home
if you ever find yourself lose all alone get back on your feeling
think of me my love will get you home boy my love will get you home boy
my love will get you home

Wednesday, July 18, 2007

YUAN'S 19TH BIRTHDAY @ 18.07.07

HAPPY BRTHDAY 2 U...
HAPPY BIRTHDAY 2 U...
HAPPY BIRTHDAY 2 AH YUAN~~~~~
HAPPY BIRTHDAY 2 U!!!!!!
yup.....2day is yuan's birthday..yesterday we went 1u with fong yiing to buy present for him..
well...our budget is RM150...seriously can buy alot of stuff la...so she planned to buy shirts,pants and guess what?????????UNDER!!!!!!yup....underwear la...ahahahha..omgoshhhhhhh...
seriously..i really duno why she want buy that as his present...and i thought suppose is girlfriend buy for boyfriend what....ahahaha...anyway..i think he will be surprised kau kau lor...ahaha...
so we went to under shop for our last destination before rush to moral class...


errrrrrrrr...i really damn malu to look at which to buy...ahaha...
somemore swan keep make me laugh..nearly laugh til die in that shop..wahaha..
wow...malu-nya..this is the headline---GIRL LAUGH UNTIL FAINTED IN UNDER SHOP...


busy discussing which to buy....
FY: this not bad..the colour looks nice...
BC: (touching)ya..i love this quality....
SS: (touching quite long)yalor..quite comfortable...
whahahahahahaha..ahahahahaha..omg....i cant help myself from stop laughing..
thats why i nearly faint cause lack of oksigen...wahahaha...somemore swan keep doing some
below age actions..omgggggggg...swan..i love ur yellow actions so muchieee la...
wellwellwell..today we brought him to the lobby there since shiaw lee want sings a special song 2 him...but he din even notice...but he said he did..wahahah..SURE BO??SURE ANT JEK??
while he was opening those presents darling had captured some photos..here we go..come on

receiving card and presents



interiewing his feeling




opening


2 shirts fr PDI

SAY CHEESE
PDI JEANS
WAHAHAH..RENOMA's under...what a big surprise man
wahahahah..when we asked him to show the under and posing with it...he totally siao d..wahaha..
can see that he quite angry..and super paiseh..face all red...wahahah...what an unforgettable bithday for him..wahaahah...
after that..we went MCD have our lunch and discussion...
but then we ended up chatting..wahhaha..and we decided to change our topic again..
ouchhh..really damn long din went to MCD...din really notice burger now in new packaging..
the meat is in herat shape leh..whahaha

Monday, July 16, 2007

唐素钻姐姐收。。。。




致唐素钻 :

你好!我选择用写信的方式来鼓励你。。因为我想这样会更有意义。。其实这几天真的很忙。。可是我想利用这短短的时间来安慰你。。其实昨天听到那个消息后我真的当场吓呆了。。。其实我应该觉得松下一口气。。为什么我会这么说呢?并不是我很高兴你分手。。说真的分手这个字听在我心里就好像一条刺刺在我心里。。我真的很恨这个字。。而为什么我会松一口气呢?就像我说的从你所说的他。。在从他对你的态度来看。。我真的觉得他不是一个好男人。。从一开始我就认定他对你很保留。。说简单一点。。他根本没有把你当成女朋友。这一点我从一开始就看得出来。。可是我不敢说。。因为你们正在热恋。。我真的一直在祝福你。。可是你知道吗?我真的很想告诉你在这一段感情你会很辛苦。。你会是永远在付出的那一方。。。我真的很想跟你说。。可是我怕。。我很怕。。我很怕我告诉你后,你会觉得我很烦。。也许你会觉得我不怀好意。。也许你会觉得为什么我身为你的最好朋友都不支持你。。也许。。。也许。。。也许我们会因为他而令我们的友情变淡。。甚至我会失去我一生中最要好的朋友。。。我真的不想这一切会发生在我们的身上。。因为我很珍惜这用7年才建成的友情。。我不想因为他而毁掉这一切。。。所以无论你有什么问题来跟我倾诉的时候,我尽量安慰你。。至少这样你也不会觉得太辛苦。。。可是看着你痛苦的样子。。我真的很矛盾。。可是最后我还是选择了沉默。。就算我说了,你也会继续的爱着他。。因为你真的太爱他了。。这一点是你我都不能否认的。。

其实你哭不出来是因为他伤你伤得太深了。。也许你的心也死了。。其实你并没有问题。。只是你的眼没有这么容易掉下来。。这对你来说是一个很大的进步。。还记得以前吗?你可以因为受到一点委屈就哭得停不下来。。可是现在你失恋都能控制住。。真的很棒了。。。我给你一个热烈的掌声。。你真的成长很多了。。还有记得感情不能拿来比较的。。就算你这段感情只维持了一个多月。。但至少你曾经付出过。。绝对没有了遗憾。。。不要老是说自己失败。。试想象就算我让你们的感情延长到一年。。可是你们之间的关系就像你跟他在一起时候那样。。他可以甚至一个星期都不跟你联络。。试问这样的感情不是更失败吗?一段已经腐坏了的感情尽然维持了一年。。这样不是更深吗?再想想如果他不跟你分手继续这样下去。。你不是更痛苦吗?所以你已经算很幸运了。。

回归单身没什么不好。。至少不用被另一个人的情绪牵着走。。。也不用着急去交另一个新的。。放大自己的眼光。才慢慢挑选。。。但也不要不再相信男人。。这个世界真的还有好男人以及愿意无悔给你幸福的人。。你现在缺少的也是最需要的就是希望。。我知道期待的越高实落也相对的越高。。但是没有了希望。。你的人生真的会很灰暗。。至少有希望。。人生会是彩色的。。。

好了。。现在欢迎你再度加入我们的单身贵族俱乐部。。不用给任何费用。。但别以为是永久会员啊。。限你在10年里一定要嫁出去。。。我的信就写到这里。。请不要回信。。WAHAHAH..但你要我也会收的。。


我们一起用希望拥抱明天吧。。。

就算有多大的困难我也会和你一起撑过去。。
这个承诺我将会持续到我们死去为止。。。


加油哦!!!冲冲冲!!!

WILSON is BACK&LUNCH Session with WaiKit!!

YahoOOOOOO!!!!!Wilson is back..Finally man...almost 4months cant listen to his 'ah pek' talk...wahahaha..usually we only chit chat awhile in msn...since he's so busy in SUNGAI LONG...
errr...actually quite pity him...he said he cant make himself well at Sungai Long...the enironment..the people...the study make him cant breath..not only him,i also cant breath even i'm in P.J....Sungai Long can be considered as rural area...PJ is urban area...so i should appreciate the with all the canggih thingy...but it's too stress for my life....my heart still belongs to REDANG..my home land...so miss it!!!haizzzzzz.....well...back to my post...finaly wilson called us out for tea session..hehe...and of course how can we miss out waikit...my jiemui..whahaahha...
his friends were came along too...sorry for no pictures..hehe...but he's a nice guy too...at least we are same 'channel'...4 of us attacked on waikit..whaahha...wilson keep asking us on our future...future...it sounds so far to me....well...i reall have never think it before...cause i'm lost now...duno whether what i doing now is the best for me...whether all these are what i want...i really not sure...well...i will just leave it there 1st..after my degree only concern it lar......
the most funny part of the session sure is waikit larrrr.....he ordered 3different types of meals for his lunch..omgooshhh....when u see what he ordered u sure will faint...okok..just let the pictures talk now...wahahhaha..ahahahaha....damn funny....



THE BOYS : WAIKIT(LEFT) ..WILSON


THE GIRLS : MAYFONG(LEFT)...SOOSWAN


WAIKIT'S MEAL as in follow:


drinks

'man tou' with ham
spagetti

oshhh...the superb food....cheesse rice with chicken
all of us was like''waaaaaaaaaaaaaa...errrrrrrrrrrrrrr....'''his stoamch is big enough...maybe inside full of worms...wahhahah...really cant tahan him...another funniest part is his eating pose..well...u may think i'm too bored...nope...i did talked alot and laughed alot.....but when i saw his priceless eating pose i really cant stop my hand from capturing..whahahaha....only exclusive here....


ahhhhhhhhhhhh
gayish eating pose...he purposely pose for us
emmmmmmmm
waikit: honey...tonight where you wnat to go for our sweet dating??
wilson: emm...sweetheart i will follow u....anythinh lar...as long can be with u...
*wahahah..okok..well..this is just a joke..no copyright protected...*
waaaaaaaa....this is the most superb foto...love it man
finally,finished except the cheese rice...yucksss...
wahahha..priceless right??nice right??valuable right??waikit now is so famous in my blog...wahhaha...finally..u gain your popularity from my blog...must appreciate me ...and owe me countless meal...whahahahaha....yeahhhhh..ok la..jk only lar crying babe...hehe..

我对自己的承诺

这是最后一次。。我容许自己在此刻尽情的哭。。哭个一天一夜。。但是从下一刻开始,我不会再为他流一滴眼泪。。甚至一刻的伤心我也不容许自己。。

他已经走了。。我为什么还站在那?我等的是什么?我浪费了自己很多的时间与精神。。
我错失了很多的人与物。。我想张开自己的眼睛。。看看周围。。深深的吸一口气。。原来明天真的会更好。。。

我相信命运。。更相信缘分。。我相信是命运让我遇见了他。。是缘分让我爱上了他。。
我们的分手只是命运的转换。。他的离开只是我们的缘分已经尽了。。我更相信分手是我们痛苦的结束。。分手会让我们的路走的更远。。至于可以走的多远。。我也不知道。也不想去知道。。因为命运已经安排好了。。

对于我的未来我很模糊,。。我不是绝望。。只是在期待着。。我相信期待可以让我的人生更美。。也因为期待让我相信我会找到愿意给我幸福的人。。也因为期待让我的世界再度回归彩色。。也因为期待让我愿意去相信永远。。也因为期待让我相信幸福离我不远

DARLING。。。刚才你说的每一句话简直就是狠狠的打醒我。。其实一直是我自己把自己困在回忆与伤心里。。一切一切其实是我用来作为我不愿醒来的藉口。。说真的我真的不敢去面对。。我一直把自己的心收起来。。在你说每一句的时候,我的眼泪一直在流。。你所说的都是我的心声。。我一直觉得没有人会了解我的感受。。一直以来只有我去了解与安慰别人。。可是我的痛永远都没有人知道。。就算我多难过也没有人擦觉到。。我不说没有人会知道。。可是只有你。。不用我多说你都知道我的感受。。有时我真的觉得很累,真的很想有一个人天使守候着我。。可以在我最失落的时候,给我一个拥抱。。一句鼓励。。可以在我开心的时候,跟我一起笑。。。而你就是我的天使。。无论我开心或难过。。你都守候在我身旁。。我失落时你一直说笑话逗我笑。。我开心时你跟我一起疯。。我哭时你也会哭。。我有困难是你第一个为我想好办法。。虽然我常常嫌你烦,但是如果有一天你不再关心我,我想我永远都不会快乐。。因为你让我的人生更完整。。因为你让我知道什么是不求回报的付出。。谢谢你。。是你让我从新站起来。。

让我们一起向明天微笑吧!!!